Actress Tori Spelling, renowned for her iconic role as Donna Martin in the hit ’90s series Beverly Hills, 90210, is stirring the waters of romance with her latest revelations about her love life. In a candid moment that has captured the attention of fans and media alike, Spelling has opened up about what type of relationship she’s looking for after her split from estranged husband Dean McDermott.
According to People magazine, Spelling detailed her ideal relationship during a July 2025 episode of her podcast, misSPELLING. Sharing her thoughts as a mother of five—Liam, 18, Stella, 17, Hattie, 14, Finn, 12, and Beau, 8—she expressed that the traditional notions of dating don’t quite align with her current life.
“The new thing is not a relationship, but a monogamous situationship,” Spelling said during her podcast. With an emphasis on balancing motherhood and work, she explained how this unconventional arrangement could suit her lifestyle perfectly. “It just kind of goes with your time and freedom,” she elaborated, hinting at a relationship that embraces companionship without the heavy commitment of a traditional romance.
But that’s not all. The 52-year-old actress admitted to the challenges that come with parenting, especially with five children running around. She humorously shared her concerns about introducing a new partner into her chaotic household. “He would be like, ‘Ah!’ and run screaming,” Spelling quipped, capturing the reality of dating as a busy mom.
In a March 2025 interview with Extra TV, Spelling embraced her new identity as “a single mom of five,” focusing on the growth pains that come with having an 18-year-old son. She even revealed the hilarious truth that at times, she doesn’t recognize her eldest son’s voice! “There’s no man in the house,” she said, reflecting on how she sometimes feels startled by the mysterious male sounds echoing through their home. “It’s my 18-year-old,” she concluded, reminding everyone that her son is growing up fast.
As Tori Spelling navigates this new chapter of her life, fans are left intrigued and supportive of her evolving narrative. With a refreshing take on love and relationships, she’s not only redefining what it means to be single but also embracing her role as a devoted mother. The conversations surrounding her journey are a testament to how celebrity life reflects the complexities of modern parenting and dating.